Most of us have a visceral reaction when we hear the words “dying”, “end of life”, “terminal”, “incurable” and the list goes on.  Fortitude is required to be intentional about reading a book that describes the dying processes.  Consider your book a “work book”.  If you are reading this book as someone facing a life-limiting illness, and   reading a chapter stimulates a response (perhaps a past memory or a personal fear),  you may benefit from writing notes on the side of this book or in a journal.  Jot down what comes to you in the form of a question or concern.  You may want to discuss these with someone close to you or a support group if you belong to one.  Be curious, ask questions and find answers.

This book is only the beginning for someone who desires preparation and thoughtfulness while preparing (as much as any of us can be prepared) for the end of life.  There are abundant resources to complete end of life tasks.  Each of us will have priorities that are unique reminders of how we live our lives.  Financial plans, health decision plans, funeral plans, providing a living legacy, telling our story, ensuring our survivors are cared for, writing our memoirs are just a few priorities that you may share with others.  Start now incorporating the plans that will alleviate some practical worries.  Much like other events in life, some planning helps to remove anxiety and replaces it with anticipation.